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  • A match made in TUD: When flowers are no longer enough

    A match made in TUD: When flowers are no longer enough

    Technological University Dublin’s African society Valentine’s event represents love beyond just romance and serves as a medium for promoting cultural integration.

    By Samuel Adeleke

    Photo credit: Samuel Adeleke

     With Valentine’s Day around the corner, a time often seen as a period to show and express love, TUD African Society brought the celebration early by organizing a Valentine’s event on 10th of February, at Bst259 Bolton Street.

    For Sharon Ojuade, President of the TUD African society, the theme of ‘A match made in TUD’ was not chosen for love and romance alone.

    “With this event, we aimed to create a relaxed and comfortable environment where people from the same background, different backgrounds, and experiences gather in one room, enjoying the atmosphere,” said Ojuade.

    In organising the event, the committee also sought the support of student entrepreneurs who offered services or provided freebies to participants in an African style.

    This included DJs, photographers, MCs, and the types of foods to be served.

    “Events like this give people a sense of belonging and serve as an avenue to promote student entrepreneurs from Africa and allow them to thrive,” said Ojuade.

    “Before the world loves you, your community must also love,” she added.

    The committee has experienced a record number of ticket sales for the event. For the president, it is inspiring to see that they live in a country with a strong sense of community.

    “Just because we live here doesn’t mean we shouldn’t have fun moments; people should still pursue what they need to pursue outside the community,” said Ojuade.

    Although it is an African society gathering, the event is open to other nationalities. “The first person to get a ticket for the event is an Asian. He reached and said he wanted to be part of it.” said Ojuade.

    According to Divine Nebo, the social director of the society, “the event is not just about finding love, it is about finding people who are like you to bond with on a different level.”

    And by extension, the theme of the event, ‘A match made in TUD’, is to show that love can be found anywhere, not just in school, but in environments like this, outside of social media.

    With students outside the African community feeling the pull of the event, Divine said, “the event is not only about Africa, but expressing the depth of African culture to non-Africans to see what African culture is about, beyond what social media portrays.”

    John Ologunlola, the event manager, also collaborated and highlighted the potential of the event to serve as a platform for non-Africans to experience African culture.

    “Even though they might not fully understand the African culture in its entirety, it is a valuable learning process,” said Ologunlola.

     Ologunlola mentioned that, as a Nigerian, he is learning more about the African culture and finding expression in the community alongside other African nationals, including Ghanaians and Congolese.

    With students like River Rogers, who is half Irish and half Polish, the intentions of the TU African society executive came to light.

    “It is my first time being in an African event,” Rogers said. “I am not African, but I can still attend and make some new friends,” he added.

    Not only did Rivers find the Afrobeat songs being played amusing, but he also left with the intention of trying an African dish. “I definitely need to try the African jollof rice,” he said.

    Mark Ologunlola, a former executive of the society, commended the event as a brilliant way of promoting cultural pride.

     “Events like this help people develop real relationships, and give people a picture of what love is,” he said.

     Ologunlola expressed excitement at seeing other people at the event, “no matter what part of Africa or the world you come from, we are all one body.”

    While the event promotes communal love, in a friendly society that helps people socialise, Nicole Okerikre, an African national from Nigeria, who participated in the event as a contestant, said, “This is a period of love, but people should find love in themselves first.”

    Denoting that self-love is non-negotiable.

    For Jaeson Jang, an Asian, ‘A match made in TUD was not just a Valentine’s event, but an opportunity to find expression among people of other cultures.

    “The African culture is amazing, I feel like family, I feel welcome. Everyone is enjoying themselves; no one feels lonely,” Jang said.

    Jang’s experience underscored the aims of the TU African Society to promote an atmosphere where joy, laughter, and love are shared without identity being a barrier.

    “Everyone can integrate into every culture; you only have to do it respectfully,” said Jang.

    By the end of the night, a match was indeed made in TUD as the event ended with Jaeson Jang from Asia and Nicole Odunsin from Africa emerging as winners.

    It was a reminder that love in its most powerful form goes beyond just being African or giving flowers; it is in identifying with people from other nationalities and embracing a sense of community.

     

  • Give an artificial heart this Valentine’s Day

    Give an artificial heart this Valentine’s Day

    A human heart used in the spelling of “LOVE”. Although the hearts won’t be available by Valentine’s day, Carmat hopes to have them on the market by the end of 2021. Photo and design by Dolapo Agunbiade

    The month of February is a month designed to remind people of matters of the heart. That’s right, Heart Awareness Month is currently being celebrated across the globe. It is a time when people can reflect on their lifestyle choices, bring awareness and raise money for those who suffer from heart disease.

    “Heart disease is the number one killer of men and women across the United States and also worldwide and a lot of that is highly preventable,” said cardiologist Dr. Alex Harrison to KEYT News. 

    According to the Irish Heart Foundation, heart failure is one of Ireland’s leading causes of death. They stated that, in Ireland, there are approximately 10,000 new cases each year. The best remedy for severe heart failure is a transplant. However, thousands die each year waiting for their operation. 

    “The idea behind this heart was to create a device which would replace heart transplants”

    Stéphane Piat

    French company Carmat received their CE marking on 22 December from European regulators. This mark gives them the permission to sell their total artificial heart system. Their product, Aeson – named after a character in Greek mythology who drank a potion that added more years to his life – is designed to impersonate real hearts by using biological sensors and materials. The artificial heart is able to regulate blood flow by using its mechanical pump. 

    “The idea behind this heart, which was born nearly 30 years ago, was to create a device which would replace heart transplants, a device that works physiologically like a human heart, one that’s pulsating, self-regulated and compatible with blood,” Stéphane Piat, Carmat’s CEO, told Reuters. 

    For now, the three-part device will be used as a stopgap until a transplant is available for those suffering from severe, incurable heart disease. This will give patients who may not have received an organ in time a chance to wait patiently for donations. Even though the battery operated piece of technology is a temporary solution, it has been recorded that the hearts can last up to five years, allowing patients to live comfortably in the meantime. 

    In the company statement they say, “Carmat aims to provide a lasting solution to the treatment of terminal heart failure, a disease for which there are very few effective options today, the main one being heart transplants.”

    However, this device may not be available to everyone. It has been recorded that Aeson will be sold at the price range of €150,000 and upwards. This extravagant price-point is not suitable for lower-income patients who are in dire need of support.

    Another possible disadvantage of Carmat’s artificial heart is its weight. The device weighs in at 900g, which is three times more than the average heart – the average ranging from 250 to 300g. This size also alienates children in need from receiving the company’s temporary heart. 

    I spoke with former senior cardiology specialist Dr. Oye Akindele to understand the possible negative outcomes of artificial hearts.

    Dr. Akindele said, “the implications of an artificial heart are numerous. Due to its mechanical nature, parts can wear out or the electrical motor system could fail causing the blood passing through the system to form clots and cause strokes.” 

    He continued, “also, some patients are prone to severe bleeding. Their blood may be too thin from previous medications used to support the artificial heart.”

    Dr. Akindele then stressed the importance of heart donors and how the right donor should improve and prolong the recipient’s quality of life.

    A 3D demonstration of Carmat’s hear at work

    The three-part device might not be ready just in time for 14 February, but Piat estimates there will be “a smooth commercial launch during the second quarter of 2021”. The introductory launch will be focused on France and Germany and then subsequent distribution across Europe will follow. 

    What are the signs of heart failure? According to the Mayo Clinic, signs of heart failure include but aren’t limited to; shortness in breath, fatigue, rapid or irregular heartbeats and lack of appetite. 

    If you believe that you or a loved one is suffering from heart disease, please contact your local doctor.  

  • Five swaps you can make for a more eco-friendly Valentine’s Day

    Five swaps you can make for a more eco-friendly Valentine’s Day

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    Every Hallmark holiday has a massive carbon footprint – Valentine’s Day lockdown edition will be no different.

    What is different, however, is that this year we have more control than ever before over the amount of waste we create. No excessive portions at restaurants; no glossy tickets to throw away and no decorative garnishes in plastic-laden cocktails. This year, as we celebrate Valentine’s Day from the comfort of our own homes, there are several easy swaps you can make to show your love for the planet

    1 CARDS

    happy valentine s day card
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    Ditch them.

    If you’re going to see your loved one face-to-face, there’s no need to scribble your feelings on a card that’s destined for the recycling bin.  

    However, if you really feel you must give your partner a card this year, there are some alternatives to the standard shop-bought Valentines, which, let’s face it, are fairly pricey for something that’s going to be thrown away after a few days.

    You can go digital! There are plenty of subscription-based services which allow you to send e-cards for all occasions. These can be sent via email or they can be posted to the Facebook wall of the object of your affection.

    Or, if you’re crafty, you can always make a card out of materials you have at home!

    Yes, it will ultimately still end up being in the bin, unless your partner is a hoarder, but it will eliminate all of the carbon-producing processes which go into manufacturing and distribution of shop-bought cards.  

    This way, you have total control over what your card is made of so, you can be sure the materials are fully recyclable.

    2 FLOWERS

    red rose bouquet on brown wooden table
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    What’s more romantic than a big bouquet of red roses?

    Perhaps some flowers that won’t die after a week and arrive swaddled in cellophane.

    This year, why not consider seeds or a potted plant for your partner’s garden -or, more likely, windowsill? The pot can be used again and the longevity of the plant is a more romantic symbol of your relationship.  

    Flowers in a vase perish. Garden plants, if nurtured and cared for, will last a lot longer and bloom again and again.

    For the crafty ones among us, there are plenty of tutorials on YouTube which show you how to make a bouquet of flowers out of recycled paper or newspaper.  Not only is this a big help for the environment, but paper flowers will last as long as your relationship and it shows greater effort, which your partner is sure to appreciate.

    3 WRAPPING PAPER

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    The glossy wrapping paper and anything with plastic-based glitter, such as most glitter, cannot be recycled. This must be taken into consideration if you’ve bought your loved one a present that requires some kind of wrapping.

    Instead, why not invest in a few reusable gift bags or boxes? These can be just as attractive-looking and will save you money, and carbon footprint points, in the long run.

    If you absolutely must go the traditional wrapping paper route, make sure the paper you buy is (a) recyclable and (b) comes in little or no packaging. Even if the paper itself is recyclable, the light plastic film around it is not.

    Before your partner recycles your carefully-selected wrapping paper, make sure all sticky tape is removed because, once again, this cannot be recycled.  Don’t let tape be the downfall of all your effort to get plastic-free wrapping paper!

    4 CHOCOLATE

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    As a lover of chocolate myself, I understand the desire to satisfy your sweet tooth for Valentine’s Day. I really do.  

    But the special Valentine’s Day chocolates – drizzled and dipped and decorated in heart-shaped boxes – all come with ludicrous amounts of packaging. There’s more plastic than consumables in those boxes.  

    Instead of buying into the over packaged and overpriced Valentine’s Day chocolate market, why not bake something sweet for yourself and your partner?  

    Flour, sugar, eggs, milk… all the basics are probably already in your kitchen and the packaging of these products are almost always recyclable or compostable.

    Again, this shows your partner you’ve gone to a greater effort, and you’ve saved yourself some money and a plastic-induced headache.

    If you’re not a baker, you can just pay extra attention to the options in your supermarket.  

    While Valentine’s chocolates will probably always come buried in plastic, if you look carefully you should be able to find some chocolate that comes in 100% recyclable materials.

    5 DINING

    crop friends taking slices of delicious pizza from cutting board
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    This one’s simple. We’re all going to be stuck inside ordering takeaway for this Valentine’s Day, right?

    Well, no, not necessarily. Takeaways come with a small mountain of trash: grease-stained bags, cartons, receipts, napkins, condiment sachets, plastic straws, you name it.

    Cooking at home drastically cuts down the amount of waste produced by your meal.  It means you’re using up what you already have and you know exactly what you’re consuming.

    It’s healthier for you, it’s healthier for your wallet and it’s healthier for the planet.  Funny how often those three coincide. 

    So, that’s five tips that I hope were helpful so, hopefully we can all show the planet a bit of love this year on Valentine’s Day.

  • Valentine’s Day around the globe: corporate ploy or a universal love-fest?

    Valentine’s Day around the globe: corporate ploy or a universal love-fest?

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    Kate Brayden speaks to TheCity.ie readers worldwide about their homegrown customs and traditions on Cupid’s favourite day

    There are plenty of valid reasons why a person doesn’t acknowledge Valentine’s Day as a holiday worth celebrating, unless you’re a hopeless romantic who counts down the days until red roses appear and chocolates manifest themselves in front of your eyes. Maybe you’re more of a believer in Galentine’s Day, or Palentine’s Day?

    How does February 14 play out in different countries around the world? Some nations have unique traditions and customs that Westerners have never even heard of, but it’s usually the cliché of dinner dates under the Eiffel Tower that make it onto Hollywood movie sets.

    TheCity.ie asked its readers from around the globe if they worship Saint Valentine with candles and a decreasing bank balance (do you realise how expensive red roses are?), and whether they treat their significant other any differently based on the calendar date.

    There are some niche ideas to show love to those around you hidden within this article, so take note. Some of these customs may need to die a slow death, based purely on their patriarchal origins: try to park those thoughts at the door and you just might end up as a Hallmark salesperson one day.

    Japan (31-year-old Hitomi Kaguyama)

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    “In Japan, we don’t “celebrate” Valentine’s Day per se. Valentine’s day is the day people give chocolates unilaterally or bilaterally. We follow this custom because we imagine the meaning of Valentine’s Day is the day of giving chocolates, instead of the day of celebration. In Japan, the feeling of “everyone is doing” tends to be focused more than the actual reason for the action.”

    [Giri(義理)means a duty or an obligation.“Giri-Choco” is the Japanese word which means “to give chocolate from a sense of obligation”. ] 

    “Most of the time, a “Giri-Choco” is the chocolates which people give to somebody without a sense of love or affection. When girls feel too shy to present chocolates to the only person who they like, they give chocolates to other people as camouflage. Like that, giving a “Giri-Choco” is the way to distract their shyness as well as to thank their bosses, friends etc. whom they think they are supported by in everyday life.”

    The Guardian reported last Valentine’s Day in 2019 that the tradition is falling out of favour in Japan, as a result of skyrocketing pressure being placed on women’s shoulders. 

    Women spend obscene amounts of yen buying male colleagues chocolates in the practice of “forced giving”, with men under pressure to reciprocate on March 14. White Day is an event essentially dreamed up by chocolate makers in the 1980s to earn more cash.

    “I used to think “why only girls have to do it?” but now I don’t care at all because Valentine’s Day is only a day in which we are expected to follow the custom in society. So, even if girls are expected to do something on the day, it doesn’t matter for me anymore.

    “For me, Valentine’s Day is the day I feel weary of the pressure from my company by which I need to consider whether I should give chocolates to someone or not. Also, in case someone gives me a ‘Giri-Choco’, I would have to think whether I should return them something back on ‘White Day’ on March 14, which is quite tiring.”

    The sense of obligation can arguably lead to incidents of harassment and abuse in the workplace, the Guardian article argues. 

    Belgian chocolatier Godiva ran a full-page newspaper ad urging businesses to encourage female employees not to hand out giri choco if they felt they were doing so under duress.

    “Valentine’s Day is a day when people convey their true feelings, not coordinate relationships at work,” said the advertisement.

    South Korea, 23-year-old Jamie

    “Well, Pepero Day is basically a day when you give a ‘pepero’ or a ‘pocky’ to someone you care about! It’s like a Korean Valentine’s Day, I guess, and Pepero Day is celebrated on November 11 as the date shows resemblance to pepero sticks!”

    Photo: Maangchi.com

    While this sounds all very jovial, an alternative tradition for single people sounds slightly depressing. In South Korea, people who do not receive gifts on Valentine’s Day or White Day gather to eat Jajangmyeon (noodles with black sauce).

    The unusual holiday takes place on April 14, and anyone who wants to celebrate the occasion of loneliness wears all-black clothes for the meal of comfort food. Unorthodox as it may be, black noodles are a delicious delicacy which would almost encourage someone to stay single for the day. 

    India, 24-year-old Anmol and 24-year-old Sangha

    “In India, Valentine’s Day is still celebrated on the 14th. It’s a similar idea, with a lot of gift exchanges, holidays or going out to dinner. It’s very Westernised – it was never a real thing, it was adopted by India. It’s seen as cool to celebrate because it’s the same holiday that America has. Interestingly, the people aren’t really allowed to engage in PDA, or there’s a sort of moral policing of sorts.”

    Woman selling roses in India. Photo: Pinterest

    Some rowdy protests take place every year on February 14th – mainly because the holiday is seen as overly-Westernised, but also because it is seen as a corporate scam for economic gain. The day is an unwelcome influence of Western culture on India, according to certain political parties.

    The Mumbai city unit chief Nana Wadekar of Shiv Sena has stated that Valentine’s Day encourages obscene and vulgar acts. Sri Ram Sena leader Pramod Muthalik was quoted in saying that couples seen celebrating the day by his activists would be forcibly married. If the couples reject marriage, then the girl will be forced to tie rakhi to the boy, a ritual which would make them siblings. The Luke and Leia storyline doesn’t exactly scream romance, in our opinion…

    Brazil, 28-year-old Schillachi

    “There’s no original Brazilian Valentine’s Day, it’s celebrated every second Friday of June instead of during February.” 

    Photo: Unsplash

    Brazilians celebrate Dia dos Namorados (‘Sweethearts’ Day’) on June 12. This date is special for Brazilian people, as it occurs on the eve of St. Anthony’s Day – the famous matchmaker and protector of lovers in the country’s folklore. Women who are single pray and practice rituals to the saint in the hopes of finding a husband. Drowning an image of the saint upside down in water until someone proposes is just one option. We haven’t acquired any hard evidence of the success of this tactic, but we suspect it’s usually a failure. 

    South Africa, 26-year-old Kevin

    “In South Africa, go wear the name of the person you love, or have  romantic feelings for, pinned to your wrist. It’s literally wearing your heart on your sleeve!” 

    It’s a tradition dating back to the ancient Roman festival Lupercalia, and sometimes men partake in the act. It’s a stealthy way to communicate your secret crush, but some people prefer to advertise this on billboards or via cloud writing. To each their own.

    Bulgaria (Trifon Zarezan), 29-year-old Mattas

    Saint Trifon (also referred to as ‘Trypho’) was a 3rd-century Christian who lived in the Roman Empire, or modern-day Turkey. He acquired fame for his healing abilities, but was persecuted for his religion and died as a martyr.”

    According to Bulgarian scientists, Saint Trifon was transformed by the pagan pre-Christian wine god Dionysius, who was worshiped by the ancient Thracians. Legend has it that Saint Trifon went to his vineyard to cut some branches away from the vines. A beautiful woman passed him by, seducing him in such a way that he accidentally cut his nose off with the clippers. Easily done, in some cases. 

    He is now considered a guardian of vineyards, and wine is a token of celebration each year for Bulgarians, rather than sharing red roses and chocolates with a lover. Why not do both, we say? The Day of Saint Trifon is celebrated by the church on February 1, while February 14 is when the bigger public celebrations take place. Bulgarians can’t decide what they love more: Their other half, or a glass of wine. To celebrate Trifon Zarezan or Valentine’s Day? That is the question. Our vote is for Trifon, 100%.

    France (30-year-old Jonas Hopp)

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    “It’s customary to gift flowers and chocolate, prepare a fine meal for Saint-Valentin if you have the skills, maybe allowing to commemorate the spirit of the beginning of the relationship with some candles and good wine. Usually, it’s possible to find a romantic restaurant somewhere in town. It’s mostly the responsibility of boys to find and plan something, but as the celebration of love, ladies are welcome to have a gift for boys too! It’s pretty balanced in this regard. Sometimes the gifts can be a bit risqué to encourage the intimacy of the couple. Usually people only gift their partner for this event, and the ‘free’ people can go to some events organised in bars and things. Red roses, of course, are a must.”

    Of course, France wins the romance race. Who among us is surprised? 

  • Definite Dating Don’ts

     

    Spaghetti doggie style. Disney's Lady and the Tramp. Photo by Little Tulip (Flickr)
    Spaghetti doggie style. Disney’s Lady and the Tramp. Photo by Little Tulip (Flickr)

     

    By Aoife Lawless

    So the big night is coming up. Saturday night! Date night! This week, it’s the mother of all date nights; it’s Valentine’s Day! Most coupled men will shudder at this knowledge and instantly go into mental overdrive trying to remember what gift it is that their other half has not so subtly been hinting about for the past few months. If in doubt, chocolates and flowers will do: women will forgive a bit of clichéd romance on Valentine’s day.

    For the date itself it’s important to choose the right restaurant to suit your date. It is also vitally important to choose the right food from the menu. If you wish to retain your dignity and keep yourself from committing an embarrassing food faux pas read on. For first dates, stay away from anything that is tricky to eat gracefully. So guys of the world, don’t bring your girl out for wings or ribs or really anything eaten with your hands. Your date will not relish the image of her finery doused in hot sauce nor will she enjoy the image of your face, handsome though it may be, smothered in barbeque sauce with half masticated meat clinging to your teeth. NO, NO, NO!

    Another thing to avoid is any shellfish that needs to be de-shelled, de-clawed or in any way detached from its body by force. Nothing ruins a romantic moment like a dismembered prawn skull slapping your date across the face as she purrs sweet nothings at you.

    Snails fall into this category also; who wants to repeat that Pretty Women scene where Julia Roberts almost takes out a fellow diner trying to coax the ‘slippery little sucker’ from its shell.

    Some pasta varieties should be given a wide berth too. As much as you might enjoy to fantasise that you and your other half will wind up sucking on the same spaghetti strand, Lady and the Tramp style, ending in a spontaneous humour-filled kiss, chances are, that ain’t happening. In reality you will probably be scooping fettuccine off your lap while you desperately wipe the creamy sauce from your lips and simultaneously check your teeth for stray herbs. For the latter, a knife will always make a handy mirror for a quick teeth check.


    So when it comes to pasta, keep it short, penne, tortellini or ravioli are all your friend on an Italian style first date. However, if you’re a daring dater, disregard all you’ve read here. Go for lobster with a side of tagliatelle; crawfish with rock hard shells which will spray innards in every direction once popped; slurp that spaghetti to your hearts content. Let’s just hope that smile of yours will still be winning with spinach speckled teeth.