Tag: Bullying

  • ‘My phone commanded my non-stop attention… so I quit’: Why we shouldn’t let smartphones rule our lives

    ‘My phone commanded my non-stop attention… so I quit’: Why we shouldn’t let smartphones rule our lives

    Radio-cassette player used to listen to music in 2020-set film The Half of It (Photo: YouTube)

    We check them up to 150 times a day but is it good for our well-being? Tech insiders have described the methods used by app developers to effectively “programme” us to never put our phones down. TheCity.ie’s Paul Caffrey explains why he ditched his device after three years and explores the beginnings of a backlash against them

    On Friday night, Netflix released The Half of It, a thoughtful film depicting 17-year-olds posting each other handwritten love letters and listening to their favourite music on portable analogue radio-cassette players. 

    Modelled on the clever premise of Edmond Rostand’s 1897 classic Cyrano de Bergerac, the expert wordsmith here is “shy, straight-A student” Ellie (played by Leah Lewis), who ghostwrites all of “inarticulate jock” Paul’s romantic notes to Aster, the popular girl of his dreams. 

    In this scene from screenwriter Alice Wu’s somewhat aspirational 105-minute present-day piece, high schoolers Ellie and Aster listen to music on a portable analogue radio-tape set that first has to be tuned in and its aerial extended — and don’t check their smartphones or mention Spotify once.

    GHOSTWRITER: Leah Lewis plays Ellie, a shy student who favours pen and paper over messaging apps, in The Half of It, released by Netflix on Friday 1st May (Photo: YouTube)

    Currently, a whopping 91% of Irish people own a smartphone, but I was never so keen on the idea. Until 2016, I resisted owning one and brazened it out with my no-nonsense 2007 Nokia. 

    It wasn’t easy shrugging off the endless comments about my stubborn refusal to switch over to the latest techology that’s been firmly in fashion since 2012. 

    Finally, I gave in and purchased an Android, internet-enabled device — the cheapest, least advanced Huawei that I could find. Suddenly, a whole new world of apps and 24/7 internet in the palm of my hand opened up to me. 

    A Nokia 2007 model (Photo: Paul Caffrey)

    At first, it was exciting. I found endless uses for the device, both professionally and socially. But it quickly took control of my life. Like a love/hate relationship, I couldn’t seem to get any peace from this thing until I switched it off at night. 

    After three years, I ditched it. I’m now back to a basic phone with no internet function and I’m managing fine. 

    I can Zoom, Facetime or Skype call — and tune in to a range of radio and television stations around the world — using my laptop. 

    I watch Sky News, CNN, BBC News, Netflix, the Dáil channel and RTÉ on a TV and enjoy listening to our native radio stations on an analogue radio set. I like the intimacy and sense of shared experience of live radio.

    I listen to my favourite CDs on a hifi (though also own an iPod), and regularly buy newspapers and current affairs magazines (though also hold online subscriptions to some publications). 

    In short, in terms of keeping up with the latest goings on, I don’t miss much. 

    During the extended Covid-19 lockdown period, the internet is certainly a lifeline to many for keeping up with studies, work and friendships. 

    But I personally don’t feel the need to access that world using these rather bulky handheld computers.

    RETRO-STYLE: Some smartphones are being styled as cassettes in a nod to the era that went before (Photo: Pinterest.ie)

    I’m not missing Whatsapp at all. Each Whatsapp group I joined began with a sense of shared purpose and camaraderie — and went downhill from there. I’ve found there are other ways to stay in touch with friends and colleagues. 

    In March, Whatsapp was criticised for enabling false “health tips” to be widely shared in group messaging during the pandemic, causing anxiety to many. Whatsapp has since reportedly made some efforts to prevent this spread of false information.

    When it comes to general health risks, the more time you spend on your phone, the more likely you are to be depressed, a Northwestern University (Illinois) study found in 2015. Other research has shown the more time spent on your smartphone — particularly close to bedtime — the worse you’ll sleep.

    Moreover, as President Michael D Higgins told the Irish Daily Mail in March 2018, social media can be used as “an instrument of abuse, which it so unfortunately has been for so many.” 

    President Michael D Higgins was interviewed by the Irish Daily Mail in March 2018 (Photo: Paul Caffrey)

    By any reckoning, the endless rise of “social” smartphone apps has enabled bullies, crooks, scam artists and worse to thrive like never before using platforms that let them pose as anyone they want to be. 

    The internet has long been a world of opportunities for those who wish harm on others; smartphones increase their opportunities.

    Smartphone app Tinder and its ilk are reportedly popular with so-called “romance scammers” who seek your cash rather than your love using false profiles. So much so that gardaí have issued official advice on how to spot such confidence tricksters.

    WATCH: The 2011 film Cyberbully illustrated the psychological effects of relentless online bullying on teenagers in a realistic way (Video: YouTube)

    For anyone who hasn’t suffered consistent bullying or depression before, it may be hard to understand my instinctive aversion to being permanently hooked up to the world wide web.

    It saddens me now to learn that children who own a smartphone are at greater risk of being bullied, harassed or worse, as I know all too well what it’s like to live in constant fear. 

    Had smartphones been on trend when I was at secondary school, my life would certainly have been much worse than it already was on a daily basis.

    Relentless harassment and threats (of physical harm and even death), along with ritual violence and humiliation — while existing in constant fear of being beaten up — was bad enough.

    I won’t understate the huge impact on me when there’s any kind of reoccurrence of that trauma in my present-day life. 

    As I’ve discovered myself, online bullying and harassment doesn’t just affect schoolchildren. Owning an internet-enabled smartphone for three years in adulthood showed me that even now, I’m not immune to it.

    As one good friend remarked to me recently: “I’m glad you’re still here.”

    Coco’s Law: Nicole Fox Fenton, 21, had been constantly bullied online (Photo: Facebook)

    In January 2018, 21-year-old Dubliner Nicole Fox Fenton, also known as Coco, took her own life after being consistently targeted with abuse and death threats on a messenger group. She was afraid to leave her house in the weeks before her death.

    Last year, in a significant step forward, new legislation to crack down on online bullying was named after the young woman.

    As it turns out, I’m far from the only adult who feels smartphone-phobic. Something of a movement against the devices has been underway for the past few years, with some tech experts on board. 

    Former Google employee Tristan Harris says we check our smartphones about 150 times a day and that we’re all being “programmed” by tech giants to never put our device down. 

    Google headquarters in California where Tristan Harris worked (Photo: Twitter)

    App developers use techniques that “work on everybody” to get our attention “at all costs” and keep the world’s three-and-a-half billion smartphone users hooked 24/7, he says. 

    Harris told America’s PBS NewsHour in 2017 that, after spending just 20 minutes scrolling through his own smartphone:

    “I don’t feel very good after that. I feel like my anxiety goes up.”

    Tristan Harris describes how ‘your phone is trying to control your life’

    The Stanford University graduate set up the Center for Humane Technology in 2018 that urges tech executives to consider the mental health of consumers instead of always looking to their company’s bottom line. 

    Meanwhile stars like Tom Cruise, Vince Vaughn, Robbie Williams and Elton John refuse to own a mobile phone.

    Big Little Lies star Shailene Woodley owns an iPhone (with no data) that she uses like a portable computer when wifi is available, but only communicates using a basic T-Mobile flip phone. The star told Jimmy Kimmel Live last year

    “We don’t notice each other any more.”

    Shailene Woodley, 28, blames smartphones for a “bigger lack of camaraderie and community than there’s ever been.” (Photo: YouTube)

    US comedian Ari Shaffir told the BBC in 2016 after ditching his iPhone: 

    “It’s every moment of your life. There needs to be an etiquette built around it and we haven’t built it yet.”

    Canadian inventor Ann Makosinski, 22, has never owned a smartphone and explained why when she was 18 in this TEDx Teen talk.

    Businessman and commentator Steve Hilton, former adviser to British Prime Minister David Cameron, refuses to own any kind of mobile phone, insisting that smartphones “have turned us into tech-addicted zombies”.

    Businessman Steve Hilton refuses to own a mobile phone (Photo: Twitter)

    And after three years of being connected to the world wide web at every waking moment, I found that I’d had enough, too.

    Enough of the incessant social media updates, non-stop email alerts and continuous news flashes at every moment of the day.

    My own inability to stop impulsively posting status updates on social media at any given moment was becoming problematic. The more I used the thing, the lower my overall mood became. 

    Break-out panel: Paul Caffrey

    Does the smartphone and its ever-enticing LED screen limit our ability to make conscious choices about how we spend our time? It certainly had that effect on me. 

    The world changed in the early 2010s when smartphones became universally popular. The days of using our laptops to surf the internet — while separately picking up the phone to make a call — were gone. 

    In the 2000s, we had more stuff, but perhaps a more restful night’s sleep. Nowadays, our internet-enabled smartphones have replaced items like alarm clocks (Photo: Paul Caffrey)

    In short, this cassette-sized appliance was taking over my life. Before long, it controlled me, commanding my non-stop attention to the exclusion of all else. So I quit.

    This AsapSCIENCE video that explores how our smartphones alter how our brains function — and suggests we all take a “smartphone vacation” — has had 63,000 likes on YouTube. 

    Since doing away with my smartphone, I’m unable to obtain apps that range from the handy but laughably unnecessary (turn my heating on before I get home or switch on the kettle remotely from the sofa) to the downright ludicrous (an app which tells me if it’s dark outside). 

    I’ve been reading more newspapers and books and find that I’m more alert because I’m forced to use my brain more. My sleep is less disturbed and I feel less anxious in general. Social media is still a part of my life but I can put it away when I want to. 

    And what do you know, I’m somehow in a majority after all. Currently, 55% of the world’s entire population do not own a smartphone, according to number crunchers Statista.

  • Is bullying happening in Irish Universities?

    Is bullying happening in Irish Universities?

    By Megan Gorman

    Bullying is a behavioural problem that affects the lives of thousands of young adults and their families. The humiliation, fear, social isolation and loss of self esteem which young adults face when bullied can result in absenteeism from college, deteriorating work, personality changes, depression and even suicide.

    National and international research shows that bullying knows no boundaries. Bullying can cause a lifetime of pain to soemone, no matter how big or small. The question is, is bullying an issue on university campuses across Ireland?

    According to the Anti-Bullying Research Centre, 1st year students are most likely to experience bullying as they are making a move from school to college and taking on a lot more responsibility.

    The City.ie spoke to Lian McGuire who works with the Anti-Bullying Research Centre based in DCU on St Patrick’s Campus. Ms McGuire said that more in-depth study is needed: “I don’t think the colleges are doing enough because they are not aware of what is actaully happening or how serious it is.”

    Almost 400 third-level students took part in an online questionnaire, set up by the Anti-Bullying Research Centre and promoted through the Union of Students in Ireland website.

    The results indicated that, 14% of students said they were bullied while studying at college, 21% said they have witnessed bullying during their time in college and a quarter of students received unwanted sexual attention.

    “We are hoping to do a follow up with the college councillors to see if we can do more. We are trying to educate people about the extent of the bullying happening on our campuses across Ireland. I feel a lot of people don’t actaully think of bullying as happening in universities.”

    Lian feels that universities need to see more research before they are actually able to act on it: “I think what is out there is confusing and there are often no dedicated areas to help with bullying. The students often don’t know where or who to go to and that’s the problem and it causes the students to isolate themselves.”

    Almost two thirds of the students that took part in the study had no idea if their college had a policy on bullying, which Ms McGuire said highlighted that a poor job was done advertising such policies. Students were more likely to seek help from friends or parents or sometimes not speak about it until it becomes too much for them to handle.

    “The study showed that some students actually named academics or administrators as the ones doing the bullying and that makes it difficult,” said Lian. “Some colleges are open to try dealing with it and some don’t know the extent of it.”

    “In rarer cases, it could suit some people for it not to be dealt with as it will open up a can of worms”

    It’s fair to say that bullying is taking place in universities across Ireland and for the most part it is not getting the same treatment as schools and the workplace and that needs to change. Universities need to set up dedicated areas for students to feel comfortable talking about their experiences and make them feel safe.

  • FUSE campaign to stop bullying at it’s core

    FUSE campaign to stop bullying at it’s core

    By David O’Farrell

    FUSE  is a brand-new anti-bullying and online safety programme, developed by the anti-bullying research and resource centre in Dublin City University, with the support of social media giant, Facebook.

    FUSE was first launched in Dublin, September of this year.

    TheCity.ie spoke to Darran Heaney, project manager of FUSE, to find out where the implementation of the programme is currently at. He said: “In February 2019, we ran a pilot to test the curriculum with 20 schools. We have now offered out the FUSE programme to schools across the country. This took place in September.”

    The programme is aimed at second year students in junior cycle, their parents and school staff in post-primary schools across Ireland.

    It is also a research project, with surveys having begun with participating students, teachers and parents. The next stage of the programme is the delivery of six workshops to students by their teachers.

    “FUSE aims to empower students to be able to tackle bullying themselves”

    The workshops will involve students creating a project or intervention to tackle bullying and raise awareness of online safety in their school.

    Heaney added: “FUSE aims to empower students to be able to tackle bullying themselves, knowing that they have their teachers and parents in the background as support.

    “With online bullying now a norm, it means that children can be targeted whenever and wherever they are. Schools and parents no longer have control over what is happening, and the FUSE programme attempts to tackle these problems.”

    A recent study carried out by ABC, the national anti-bullying research and resource centre, reported that 26% of primary school children in the country said they had been bullied offline, while 13% said they had been bullied online. In secondary schools, the figures were lower but still significant, with 12% saying they had been bullied offline and 10% online.

    “Schools and parents no longer have control over what is happening, and the FUSE programme attempts to tackle these problems”

    The initiative will be carried out over a year-long period, which Heaney explained aims to stop bullying in schools. He said: “[FUSE] is delivered by teachers who are anti-bullying coordinators in each school and over the course of the year, students are empowered to tackle bullying and raise awareness of online safety in their schools.”

    ABC has provided a curriculum to support teachers and students in achieving the project goals, which include reducing levels of bullying; increased reporting of bullying incidents; raise awareness of online safety, and increase inclusiveness within schools.

    FUSE currently has a timeline of events set out on its website which will run until April 2020. Second year students involved in the FUSE programme are encouraged to make projects around tackling online bullying which will be showcased on Safer Internet Day in February 2020. These projects will then be presented to the National Anti-Bullying Centre in April 2020, with the best winning praise from the centre in recognition of students’ efforts to stop online bullying.

  • Sticks and stones: the business of bullying in the workplace

    Sticks and stones: the business of bullying in the workplace

    Bullying isn’t just for kids in the playground, but what effect is the workplace bully having on our mental health? Aoife Loughnane investigates

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  • Bullying in Ireland

    Bullying in Ireland

    Lynne Swan and Colin Higgins report.

    Bullying is a very topical issue in Ireland, especially following the recent Children’s Referendum. Do the people of Dublin feel the issue of bullying is being tackled properly in this country?

    We hear from people on the streets about how we can best tackle the issue of bullying as well as discussing the role parents and schools need to play if we are to stamp it out for good.

    Awomen being interviewd regarding bullying
    A Dubliner being interviewed about her thoughts on bullying