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  • “She was on the floor unconscious. It’s an image that will never leave my mind.”

    “She was on the floor unconscious. It’s an image that will never leave my mind.”

    By Jane Byrne

    Reporter Jane Byrne looks at the new spiking trends in Ireland and the UK by examining the key part social media has played in bringing awareness to the issue and how it has affected one young woman from Dublin.

    Warning: Some readers may find the this article upsetting. Topics of rape, spiking and sexual assault are featured.

    With nightclubs and bars finally back open in Ireland for the first time in 19 months, partygoers are eager to attend. However, since their return, an alarming amount of drink spiking incidents have been reported in Ireland and the UK. 

    According to the HSE website, drink spiking is defined as ‘when someone puts drugs or alcohol into your drink without you knowing. The drugs used are mind-altering substances that affect how you behave.’ A person may find it difficult to know if their drink has been spiked because the drugs usually don’t smell or taste. 

    Someone may spike a drink to carry out sexual assault or rape, to carry out a theft, to carry out a physical assault or for amusement. Drink spiking has been reported as far back as 1903 and common drugs used are tranquillizers, ketamine or Xanax. 

    But the way in which drugs are covertly administered in the last number of weeks has changed. Reports of injection through needles are now on the rise. Therefore, even if people choose not to order any drinks when out, they are still at risk of being spiked. 

    The National Police Chiefs’ Council (NPCC) revealed there have been approxiamately 140 confirmed reports across September and October of drink spiking, and 24 reports of some form of injection within the UK. 

    Anger and frustration began emerging on social media and victims who had been spiked, notably young women, began sharing their stories on Instagram and Tiktok. Naturally, this gained a lot of attention which allowed the situation to escalate into a digitally-borne movement. 

    Petitions, warning signs, aftercare and protest information have circulated widely across Instagram in the last few weeks. 

    A group known on Instagram as ‘Girls night in’ set up a petition for safer nightclubs. The petition, ‘make it a legal requirement for nightclubs to thoroughly search guests on entry,’ which was set up at the end of October has already garnered over 172,000 signatures. On the 4th of November, Westminster Parliament debated the topic and discussion is ongoing.

    Source: Instagram

    Similar petitions were set up in Ireland. To date this petition on needle spiking has reached 5,000 signatures with growing numbers daily.

    Source: Instagram

    “Girls night in” also set up thirty different Instagram accounts that focused on specific colleges and areas within the UK. This allowed students within the UK to keep up to date on issues relating to spiking in their area. 

    On the 28th of October, ravers decided to boycott night outs in an effort for club and bar managers to implement better safety measures in their premises.

    Source: Instagram

    This was a movement that was seen across all social media sites with participants sharing stories and encouraging others to follow suit. Their mission was a success with thousands of young people boycotting clubs for the night.

    Source: Instagram

    Since then, Instagram, Tiktok and Twitter have been flooded with spiking stories, helpline information and safety precautions. 

    Elysia O’Neill and Della Clayton are two female students from Leeds who set up a spiking database where people can see where spiking has been prevalent. Victims can also report spiking incidents themselves. Their motto is “awareness is the best safety measure.” 


    The database is nothing short of harrowing with girls detailing traumatic and scary dark club nights where they have been spiked and woken up with no recollection of the night. They encourage everyone to use it because more reports and more information mean more awareness and hopefully prevention. The database can be accessed here.

    How would you know if your drink has been spiked? Changes to your drink that could indicate tampering. Source: Instagram

    With most of the noise on social media surrounding British nightclubs, Irish party goers might think our clubs and bars are safe. Unfortunately for young doctor Megan, * this couldn’t be further from the truth. 

    Megan just recently graduated with a degree in medicine and was on a night out in Dublin City with friends celebrating their graduation. Megan and her friends did not ‘pre-drink’ before heading into town and her first drink was at the club. She details what happened next. 

    “My friends and I were all at the bar dancing and celebrating getting through the last five years. I ordered a vodka soda lime. After that, I ordered another, eager to catch up with my friends. Unfortunately, that was the last thing I remember.” 

    She continues, “it’s easy for me and others to think that I was just drunk and hadn’t eaten that much that day, but the reality is I had been out with my family for a three course meal two hours before meeting my friends and I had two single measured drinks, it wouldn’t make sense for me to be that drunk.” 

    The next thing Megan remembers is being at home in her childhood bedroom. “I woke up and thought to myself ‘god did I really get that drunk that I had to be brought home, how embarrassing.’ Then I looked at my phone and saw messages from friends I had been with asking me to ring when I saw their call, texts saying ‘were at the dancefloor where are you??????’ At this point I panicked and called out for my Mum. She came in and told me everything.”

    The nightclub was packed, and Megan’s friends were all dancing. Soon they realised Megan wasn’t with them and they began searching the club. “We couldn’t find her, and the bouncers just kept saying she probably went off with a boy or is talking to someone she knows in the smoking area but we hadn’t seen her with anyone. We were calling her phone and there was no answer. After an hour of looking, I decided to put my head over the toilet doors and Megan was on the floor unconscious. It’s an image that will never leave my mind.” 

    Luckily Megan’s friends found her and were able to stay with her. They implemented safety measures and made sure her state didn’t deteriorate. Megan regained consciousness and was well enough for her parents to collect her. Her parents describe the situation as every parent’s worst nightmare. 

    The following day Megan went to the hospital to run blood and urine samples. “It’s so scary not knowing what happened and I will carry the trauma of it around for a long time. I’m lucky I had my friends with me and that I went to an empty toilet stall and not home with someone. It’s a very invasive feeling and I have reason to believe it was the staff who spiked as I wasn’t drinking anywhere else, and they were the only ones handling my drinks.” 

    If you believe you have been spiked, make sure to tell a friend, a medical professional or someone you trust straight away. If you are with someone who is acting drunker than usual or is suspected to have been spiked, stay with them, keep their drink if they still have it, report the incident to the Guards and if necessary, go to the emergency room. 

    The spiking movement sparked a larger conversation about safety for women in our communities. Following the murder of Sarah Everard earlier this year and the way in which spiking has developed whereby victims could have all safety measures in place and still be spiked, a broader discussion has developed. Many echo the response on Twitter that it should not be up to the victim to make sure they are not attacked but up to society to hold predatory behaviour and attackers accountable for their actions.

    *Names have been changed to protect identities.

  • Women victims of domestic violence threatened by the lack of accommodations

    Women victims of domestic violence threatened by the lack of accommodations

    By Fantine Carron

    Fantine Carron reports on why the COVID-19 pandemic has made the issue of domestic violence the worst it has ever been and that organisations are struggling to help the victims.

    The pandemic is having dramatic consequences on domestic violence. [Source – Pixabay]

    Last year, a report published by Safe Ireland highlighted the main problem that domestic violence organisations are facing; the lack of available space in emergency accommodations. The data shown in this article has been gathered by Safe Ireland with the help of 32 Irish domestic violence services.

    Nationwide, there are only 144 spaces available to women in refuges, including 31 in Dublin. Nine counties do not have refuges. There are also no refuges at all for men in the country.

    In total, between March and December 2020, 2,159 requests for emergency accommodations for women, (that includes refuges, safe homes and supported housing), could not be met. This situation is putting women and children at risk every day as they are stuck in abusive homes.

    Figure 1

    The problem is not new. In 2018 already, 3,256 requests for accommodation were not met due to the lack of space available in refuges.

    Domestic violence organisations are forced to face this problem every day without being able to do anything about it.

    Priscilla Grainger, the founder of Stop Domestic Violence in Ireland said that even when a victim has reached out, it is hard, sometimes impossible to help her actually leave her abusive situation.

    “Right now, all of the refuges are full”, says Grainger. “Sometimes, we get help from homeless accommodations but they are struggling too. Airbnb also helped by offering some hotel beds at some point but that is still not enough.”

    “The majority of the women who call us have children with them.  So it is more complicated for them to move in with a relative or friends. Accommodations are only available for a limited time and some victims were also financially abused so they are left without any resources. It’s a vicious cycle.” she explains. 

    Grainger founded Stop Domestic Violence in Ireland in 2014 with Ainie Grainger, her daughter. After suffering years of abuse and managing to escape, they decided to take what they learnt from their experience to help other people in the same situation. They mainly help the victims to gather evidence to take their case to court.

    Figure 2

    According to Figure 2, on average 1,985 women contacted a domestic violence service each month from between March and December 2020. On average, 589 women were doing it for the first time. In nine months, helplines received more calls than they did in the entire year previously. 

    The victims were seeking a range of different support from call of help, a place in a refuge, simple information, etc. A large majority of them were contacting them via a call, probably outside their house in a safe place.

    The situation with domestic violence in Ireland was already bad and the pandemic did not help reversing the trend that had been going on for a decade now (see Figure 3).

    Figure 3

    Women’s Aid said in its 2020 Annual Impact Report that there was a 43% increase of contacts to the organisation compared to 2019 (from 20,673 to 29,717).

    ” ‘Stop Domestic Violence in Ireland’ is a small organisation compared to Women’s Aid for example but we still noticed an increase in calls after the pandemic started”, says Grainger.

    For Grainger, the issue of domestic violence cannot be solved without first bigger funding from the government. Domestic violence needs to be made a priority and there needs to be new refuges and accommodations getting built to protect the victims as much as possible.